Option 1: take the whole assembly to a shop (about an hour drive each way) that can balance the entire assembly put together
Option 2) Put it together and hope, but I could on theory have to remove it, press out the u-joint and try again up to three times while performing a dangerous up on stand running rear end test each time in between.

If I elect for option 2 it seems I would start by assuming I want the bigger of the weights on the rear shaft toward the differential as that is clearly the most out of round shaft location and that would put it nearest the strongest resistance to wobble.
Does anyone know if this is really even an issue? What I mean is was the assembly originally balanced together or was each shaft just balanced individually? If it is the latter then the orientation of the two shouldn't matter much as the u-joints are pretty much self centering given that they use the circ clips all around.